Dating as friends first
This is the time to get to know the relationship side of them. You may feel like there is nothing to talk about because you’ve been friends first for so long.Well, now you get to know the romantic side of them.You spend a lot of time together, you care about each other — but is it actually a good idea to date a friend?On the one hand, you could ruin the friendship, but on the other hand, you already have a strong foundation for something more. "Dating a good friend is often a good idea," relationship therapist Aimee Hartstein, LCSW tells Bustle.Here’s why: The beauty of starting off as friends is that you already know the other person.Usually, in the first stages of dating, you try to be as attractive as possible while simultaneously trying to get to know one another.Another advantage of being friends first is that you may already feel comfortable being around that person.There is no awkward silence or difficulty trying to come up with something to talk about.
the stress of so many changes at once can lead to feelings of needing mental health help.
Finally, the last advantage of dating a friend is simple: you’re already friends! But, it may be hard to build a friendship when you are also trying to build the romantic relationship.
Being friends first lets you work on the rest of the relationship without having to worry about if you’re with the right person quite yet.
I have to admit that it can be weird to transition from friends to dating.
On the other hand, you may have that feeling that they are the right person for you.