Single guys dating women with kids
That child does not need to compete with you, and you don’t need to compete with that child.Even if you were to marry her, the child(ren) will always come first, whereas being with a childless woman means YOU come first. So you’d bond with her children and then you (and the children) would have to endure the pain of losing or restricting that bond with each other.Especially since women are more likely to file for divorce, marrying a divorced woman means you are more likely to end up divorced from her.Second marriages have a higher failure rate than first marriage.Marrying a woman with minor children gives you about a 70% chance of getting divorced. Some people stay legally married, but miserable.8) You don’t want to deal with the child’s father.
I think it holds up well and is highly relevant in today's world.
Even if a biodad isn't in the picture right now, he can always resurface and wreak havoc unless he's dead.
As you can see, whether you’re just looking for sex or you actually do want to get married (= legally obligating yourself to give at least half of everything you’ll ever earn to a woman, being held legally/financially responsible for any children she births during the marriage whether they are yours or not), you should avoid single mothers.
PLEASE NOTE: If you want to comment, do so here because this entry already had hundreds of comments.]Not of all of these reasons apply to everyone.
Some men are dating for sex, others are dating for marriage and sex, for example. Men, especially men with game, have a choice in women. Unless you’re a pedophile, it is extremely unlikely that a woman with a child has anything to offer that’s of benefit to you that a woman without a child lacks.