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That child does not need to compete with you, and you don’t need to compete with that child.
Even if you were to marry her, the child(ren) will always come first, whereas being with a childless woman means YOU come first. So you’d bond with her children and then you (and the children) would have to endure the pain of losing or restricting that bond with each other.
PLEASE NOTE: If you want to comment, do so here because this entry already had hundreds of comments.]Not of all of these reasons apply to everyone.
First it will start off with having to pay for babysitters, and then she will want to have “dates” on which the child(ren) will come along.This is written to protect men (and, somewhat, children).None of this is to say single mothers are bad people and certainly not to say all women do the things I listed.She has demonstrated already that she doesn’t know how to effectively use contraception OR otherwise doesn’t make good choices because she made children with the wrong guy (most likely)*, and has demonstrated that she WANTS to be a mother as she kept the child.Once a woman is a mother, she is less reluctant to avoid pregnancy.