When your soulmate is dating someone else
Once he realized what was going on, he did something surprising.
He asked the woman and his wife to discuss the situation with him.
He realized that this attraction was based on his reaching for his lost youth and his creativity and had nothing to do with this young woman he found himself attracted to.
The two of us made a promise to each other when we married that if an attraction for another person ever came up for either of us, we would talk to the other first before acting on it.
While a breakup might be tough, the sadness will pass, and you'll be able to better connect with someone new.
As a certified health coach, I work with clients on finding happiness in their relationships, and often those include romantic ones.
Back up and take some time to consider what you are truly feeling.
You either go crazy trying to deny to everyone that the attraction is happening or you dip your toe (or whole body) into cheating and infidelity.
“I’m in a committed relationship and I’ve have just found my soulmate. We believe that if you are truly in a committed relationship and your soulmate has just appeared from out of no where, the real problem isn’t that you’ve just found your soulmate.
We’re saying that if you are in a committed relationship and find yourself attracted to someone else, take a look at what’s going on within you and within your relationship and try to heal those parts of you that are crying out for help before you get involved with someone else—even someone you believe to be a soulmate.
Finding a soul mate when you’re in a relationship with someone else may not be what it appears to be. Be honest with yourself about your attraction and find out what it’s really about then be honest before you ruin your relationships.